no other option. period.

i have a new hero. his name is will. and he is fab. will smith was on ellen today and lyn and i happened to catch his appearance. will is so casually funny that its immensely endearing. we decided that will is one of those celebs that we would be friends with... hands down (note: undoubtedly, will would want to be our friends too.) will was talking about his life and how happy he is and as always, he got asked about his relationship with jada. he and jada have been married 10 years, which ellen side-noted is actually like 50 years in celebrity marriage years...and she is right. there are maybe a handful of celebrities that can boast that many years of marriage.

will said, and i quote, " jada and i decided that there are no other options to being together forever." he said that there are times in everyone's life when their sig. other will say or do something that will make you think...um thats worthy of a divorce....but really its not. we all have disagreements and fights etc. but the main problem with marriages is that there are too many options. you can always opt out of a marriage, so they agreed that they are elliminating the options. the only option is either they live together grumpy at each other or they get over it and live their lives joyfully. i love this. eliminate the option. they took that till-death-do-us part thing seriously. and i love it.

will went on to say something else that i love..."your life gets better the more good people you surround yourself with" i just really appreciate his positive outlook on life, they are simple concepts articulated simply. well done...well done.